July 8, 2013

Just Ask

I know New York has a reputation for being filled with rude, unfriendly people, but I have discovered that New Yorkers love to give directions. Giving directions is a chance to demonstrate that we’ve lived here awhile and know our way around. New Yorkers, like everyone else, like to help and tell you what they know. But you have to ask.

Whatever the reasons for this, it’s also true in the church. I was reminded of this earlier this week on twitter when I asked Nurya Love Parish (@nurya), who I don’t know personally, if there was a movement for divestment from fossil fuels and reinvestment in within the Episcopal Church. She didn’t know, but she and the folks at Episcopal Café (@episcopalcafe) asked around. Parish ended up writing this roundup, which the Episcopal Café followed up on here.

Whatever your feelings on these particular issues, my point is that people like to help, even people you have never interacted with before. I’ve found this is true when it comes to climate change, event planning, social media, administrative best practices, and many other things. I’m always asking for help, and I’m often offering it as well. ECF Vital Practices is a perfect example of people who want to help, and would love to answer your questions.

Social media has only increased the opportunities to get and give advice and to collaborate. You can ask experienced marketers, people at the Episcopal Church Center, and those a continent away through social media. People love that little ping that comes from being asked a question and most people (even grumpy New Yorkers) want to help. You just have to ask.