The insults are fast and furious, quick as fingers can type. Disdain drips from comments. There’s unfriending and dismissal, with malcontents and earnest disagreement getting mixed into a giant slurry of an uncivil war.
This political season feels uglier than any I’ve witnessed in four decades. Maybe I’m naïve – or forgetful – but the mudslinging seems to feed and thrive like a parasite on the ease and reach of social media.
As people of faith, what can we do?
First and last, we pray. The Book of Common Prayer is a wonderful resource for powerful prayers, including an offering for the nation on page. 258.
“Lord God Almighty, you have made all the peoples of the earth for your glory, to serve you in freedom and in peace. Give to the people of our country a zeal for justice and the strength of forbearance, that we may use our liberty in accordance with your gracious will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.”
But we must also act. I witnessed last week a public falling out between a family that I cherished as a child. One person supports Hillary Clinton; other family members are dedicated fans of Donald Trump. Their pain was palpable. At one point, the mom said she would deactivate her Facebook account because she didn’t want it to hurt those she loved.
I urged her not to leave. The only way forward that I can see is to move through this election season together, in fragile tension, in purposeful community. (Of course, Facebook is only one way to be in community but in this modern age, it’s a potent tool). This will require restraint. Believe me, as the liberal daughter of a conservative family, I feel the pain of restraint. But love wins, so I (mostly) refrain from commenting and scroll past memes and posts that make me shudder. And I refrain from posting on my own feed ones that will make my family shudder. I love them more than I dislike some politician, and I refuse to insert Hillary or Donald into my relationship with my family.
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