Solidarity with our Trans and LGBTQ+ Siblings

In a time of increasing violence toward our trans, non-binary, two-spirit, and other LGBTQ+ siblings, we are called to embody a bold, visible love that reflects God’s radical welcome. This toolkit provides us with resources from Vital Practices, TransEpiscopal, The Episcopal Church, and other allied organizations and individuals to help us deepen our solidarity with trans, non-binary, and two-spirit individuals through education, worship, advocacy, and congregational relationship-building. We hope this resource will help your congregation widen the circle of belonging and witness to the dignity of every beloved child of God.

Looking for something specific not included in this toolkit? Email Jacob Sierra at the Vital Practices team at the Episcopal Church Foundation ([email protected]) to get connected.

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Learn: Start with Education
  • Trans Children are God’s Gifts by Molly Carnes

    Why should churches care about our transgender folks? Molly Carnes, Episcopalian, vocational evangelist, and LGBTQ+ advocate in the State of Texas, offers a poignant answer in her article in the Texas Observer. She writes, “The God that I know represents love, and that’s what God has meant to my family. Before she officially came out as trans to the congregation, Ruby struggled with suicidal ideation, and having the care and support of her church helped her pull through. Without the divine compass of her faith, my daughter might not be with us today.”

  • Begin with Love by the Rt. Rev. Deon Johnson (he/him)

    In this video presentation, Bishop Deon Johnson calls us as followers of Christ to be visible, intentional, and unequivocal in our support and love of all beloved children of God, and to always widen the circle of who is invited and included. This video is available with English and Spanish subtitles.

  • Discipleship from the Margins by David Patiño (he/they) and Atticus Zavaletta (he/they)

    In this 2019 webinar, David Patiño and Atticus Zavaletta share their experiences as young trans people of faith and the gifts of Trans/Queer leadership. They both actively work in ministry and focus on forming leaders and disciples from the margins. In their work, they try to reach the younger and marginalized segment in faith communities that is often overlooked and invite those on the outside to come in.

  • Gender Justice Jam from the Staff Office for Gender Justice, The Episcopal Church

    Episcopalians and others gathered in a 12-week virtual education and formation series designed to inform and equip advocates for gender justice. The series, grounded in Scripture, theology, prayer, arts, and culture, included discussions with organizers, clergy, and other leaders on topics including defending reproductive justice, supporting LGBTQ+ youth and families, preventing gender-based violence, and more.

  • Guide to Being An Ally to Trans and Nonbinary People from Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) National

    If learning about the experiences of transgender people is new for you, you may want to browse a glossary first for any words that might be unfamiliar. PFLAG’s “Guide to Being an Ally to Trans and Nonbinary People” includes a comprehensive list of associated terminology and how the extensive vocabulary fits together to help us talk about sex, gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation. Finally, the guide discusses what good allyship looks like and explores how we can identify barriers to our solidarity and overcome those barriers.

  • A Guide to LGBTQ+ Inclusion and Safety for Churches and Ministries from The Episcopal Diocese of the Great Lakes

    Our LGBTQ+ siblings are present in every single community. It is essential that every congregation, regardless of size, age demographics, location, or local politics, lives into their baptismal vow to love all and respect the dignity of every human being. The Episcopal Diocese of the Great Lakes offers congregations a comprehensive guide that includes definitions, LGBTQ+ and Episcopal history, and general FAQs.

  • Small Group Book Studies for Fostering LGBTQ+ Inclusion from the AuSable Inclusion Center

    This list, curated by the AuSable Inclusion Center of the Episcopal Diocese of the Great Lakes, offers resources that your small group can use to have conversations around justice, inclusion, and faith. Whether you're exploring LGBTQ+ allyship, racial equity, or scriptural reflection, each book can be used to facilitate meaningful group discussion.

  • Special Observances for the Trans, Nonbinary, and Two-Spirit Community from ECF Vital Practices

    Is your congregation seeking ways to grow in its welcome and inclusion of transgender, nonbinary, and two-spirit people? Taking the first step can feel daunting, but it doesn't have to be. Throughout the year, there are meaningful observances that offer opportunities to learn, reflect, and show visible support. Consider how your community might engage with the following dates as part of a journey toward deeper inclusion and belonging.

Pray: Around Your Values
  • Public Policy and Witness Weekly Prayers from the Office of Government Relations, The Episcopal Church

    The Office of Government Relations of The Episcopal Church invites you to pray their weekly prayers for the vulnerable among us who face challenges, fears, and threats. The OGR writes, “These prayers are not a replacement for action; they offer grounding and space to discern what actions each of us feel compelled to take. We may feel called to meet with or contact our elected officials, participate in community organizing, provide services to those in our communities, or join in protests or acts of civil disobedience.” We invite you to incorporate these prayers in your individual and communal prayers.

  • A Service of Renaming (Book of Occasional Services, p. 149) from Church Publishing Incorporated

    Claiming one’s name can be both an empowering and vulnerable experience during one’s transition. A congregation can express its full solidarity with its trans, non-binary, and two-spirit members by offering a Service of Renaming. This would give individuals a chance to present themselves, their true selves, to God and to their loving parish community.

  • Prayers for Transgender Day of Visibility (March 31) by TransEpiscopal and Associated Parishes for Liturgy and Mission

    Trans Day of Visibility (TDOV) foregrounds trans joy and flourishing, celebrating the stories of trans lives in everyday as well as extraordinary circumstances. As the name suggests, the day creates space for trans people to be visible as they wish and are able to, emphasizing their agency in that process. This invitation is in stark contrast to how trans people can be made visible in stigmatizing ways. This resource is a collaboration between members of TransEpiscopal and Associated Parishes for Liturgy and Mission (APLM).

  • A Litany from the Margins from the AuSable Inclusion Center

    A Litany is an intercessory prayer that lists the needs and concerns of a community. It’s an opportunity to lay before God all those things that are beyond our control. On the 20th or 21st of each month, you are invited to join Deacon Beck Leclaire from the AuSable Inclusion Center of the Episcopal Diocese of the Great Lakes online to pray “A Litany from the Margins,” a reimagining of the medieval Great Litany from the perspective of modern people, especially those living at the margins of society. You can stream the service on Youtube, Facebook, or Twitch.

Do: Grow in solidarity
  • Take the Trans and Non-Binary Congregation Assessment from TransEpiscopal and the Trans and Non-Binary Task Force of the Diocese of California

    Created by the Trans and Non-Binary Task Force of the Diocese of California, this assessment tool helps churches and communities reflect on their welcome to trans and non-binary people. With both tangible and intangible measures, the checklist invites congregational leaders to prayerfully discern, as a group, where gaps in accessibility and inclusion may exist—and how to grow toward deeper belonging.

  • A Christian Conversation Guide by the Human Rights Campaign

    This guide was created by the Religion & Faith Program & Project One America at the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) to support Christians in building safe and inclusive faith communities for all God’s children including people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT).

  • Embracing Non-binary Folks: A Brief Guide for Churches from the TransEpiscopal Steering Committee

    Non-binary people are very much present and active, bringing their gifts into Episcopal church life in various capacities-- serving on vestries, as lectors, as youth group and young adult leaders, as ordained clergy, and more. At the same time, the church is not yet fully supportive, understanding, and fully embracing of non-binary people. Read this guide to learn more about the steps your congregation can take to radically embrace its non-binary siblings.

  • Pronoun Buttons: A Sign of Welcome by Lisa Fischbeck (she/her)

    Cultivating an environment of inclusion may take time. Consider taking small steps, such as encouraging your congregation to use pronoun buttons to ensure queer and non-binary individuals feel welcome. In her VP blog post, Lisa Fischbeck describes her congregation’s process to start using pronoun buttons, and the honest discussions and education that happened as a result of that decision.

  • “Aux Arc Maquis”: Where Outreach is Resistance by Kim Wood and Jacob Sierra

    In Fall 2024, St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Mountain Home, Arkansas, began reimagining its mission through new formation and outreach efforts. In a region dominated by white Evangelical Christianity, the church is actively resisting Christian nationalism and offering a Gospel-rooted alternative. Through public witness, online engagement, and a new podcast called Aux Arcs Maquis, the congregation is amplifying Jesus’ teachings of justice, compassion, and radical welcome.

Connect: Know Your Partners
  • TransEpiscopal from TransEpiscopal

    TransEpiscopal is a group of transgender, non-binary, and allied Episcopalians dedicated to fostering the full embrace of trans and non-binary people, and our loved ones within the Episcopal Church and to inspiring faith-based advocacy for trans and non-binary justice in the wider world.

  • Staff Office for Gender Justice, The Episcopal Church from the Staff Office for Gender Justice, The Episcopal Church

    The Staff Officer for Gender Justice position was created by the 80th General Convention. The role focuses on justice, advocacy, and inclusion for women and LGBTQ+ people.

  • The AuSable Inclusion Center from The AuSable Inclusion Center

    The AuSable Inclusion Center is a faith-based community resource center in the Episcopal Diocese of the Great Lakes providing education, advocacy, and support to people that are marginalized based on gender, sexuality, and/or socio-economic status through social, emotional, material, and spiritual help.

  • Task Force for LGBTQ+ Inclusion, The Episcopal Church from the Task Force for LGBTQ+ Inclusion, The Episcopal Church

    The Task Force for LGBTQIA+ Inclusion was created and funded by the 80th General Convention to initiate a churchwide audit of how The Episcopal Church has lived into its 1976 commitment to provide full and equal claim to the love, acceptance and pastoral concern and care of the Church to its LGBTQ+ members. The task force was also tasked with creating an archive of the history of the work for LGBTQ+ inclusion in The Episcopal Church. The link above will direct you to the report submitted by the task force to the 81st General Convention.

  • Queering Faith (Institute for Welcoming Resources) from The National LGBTQ Task Force Action Fund

    The National LGBTQ Task Force Action Fund builds political power, takes action, and creates change to achieve freedom and justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer people and their families. It provides resources and support to its constituents, who affirm the need for equity for all LGBTQ people as an inherent value of their faith or secular beliefs.

  • Human Rights Campaign from the Human Rights Campaign

    The Human Rights Campaign has spent more than 40 years leading the movement for LGBTQ+ equality in the United States. Despite this progress, our most marginalized are still suffering from violence, discrimination, and fear. HRC’s goal is to ensure that all LGBTQ+ people, and particularly those of us who are trans, people of color, and HIV+, are treated as full and equal citizens within our movement, across our country, and around the world.

  • Sacred Resistance from Episcopalians across the Episcopal Diocese of Los Angeles

    Episcopalians across the Diocese of Los Angeles are mobilizing networks of Sacred Resistance to support vulnerable communities targeted by the new federal administration’s threats of mass deportations and rollback of other rights. Their site includes resources for those who may face discrimination, deportation, or marginalization. They also lead training for those standing in support of those threatened.