December 30, 2020
The God Who Sees Me
Abuse. We see it within our perspective communities and we typically speak up about it when it’s obvious and lives are in danger. Sometimes we fearfully and selfishly shrink away from the situation in hopes that we are misinterpreting what we are witnessing. Other times, we fake politeness and say to ourselves, “Well, it’s none of my business.” But in Genesis, there’s One who not only sees the situation, but speaks to it; and their name is, El-Roi.
Hagar appears in Genesis 16 as Sarai’s “Egyptian slave-girl” who Sarai gives to Abram to sleep with, in hopes that she would have a child by way of Hagar. Rabbinical tradition claims her to be the daughter of pharaoh. In Islamic tradition, Hagar (Hajar) is never mentioned by name in the Quran, but is alluded to. One stream of Islamic tradition believes her to be the daughter of King Maghreb who was killed by pharaoh Dhu l-'arsh, and thereby was captured, ending up in the household of pharaoh. Another stream within Islamic tradition believes Hagar to be the daughter of an Egyptian King who is given to Abram as compensation for approaching Sarai, as Abram's sister, instead of his wife.
Whatever her previous life entailed before she appears in Genesis, Hagar’s abuse is carried out by Abram and Sarai.
Sarai hastily comes up with a plan that backfires:
“So, after Abram had lived ten years in the land of Canaan, Sarai, Abram’s wife, took Hagar the Egyptian, her slave-girl, and gave her to her husband Abram as a wife.He went in to Hagar, and she conceived; and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked with contempt on her mistress. Then Sarai said to Abram, ‘May the wrong done to me be on you! I gave my slave-girl to your embrace, and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked on me with contempt. May the Lord judge between you and me!’ 6 But Abram said to Sarai, ‘Your slave-girl is in your power; do to her as you please.’ Then Sarai dealt harshly with her, and she ran away from her” (Genesis 16:3-6).
Hagar is not at all happy about being submitted to sexual abuse, which many slaves unfortunately endured. She becomes upset with Sarai once she becomes pregnant (Genesis 16:4). The Hebrew word used for “contempt” is קָלַל (qalal), which means to slight, to despise, and to dishonor. In response, Sarai makes sure to let Hagar know who had the upper hand by dealing harshly with her.
El Roi: The God Who Sees Me:
Despite the abuse executed by Abram and Sarai, God takes notice and intervenes.
Genesis 16:7-12 reads,
“The angel of the Lord found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, the spring on the way to Shur. And he said, ‘Hagar, slave-girl of Sarai, where have you come from and where are you going?” She said, “I am running away from my mistress Sarai.’ The angel of the Lord said to her, ‘Return to your mistress, and submit to her.’ The angel of the Lord also said to her, ‘I will so greatly multiply your offspring that they cannot be counted for multitude.’ And the angel of the Lord said to her, ‘Now you have conceived and shall bear a son; you shall call him Ishmael, for the Lord has given heed to your affliction.He shall be a wild ass of a man, with his hand against everyone, and everyone’s hand against him; and he shall live at odds with all his kin.’”
This message from the angel of the Lord ignites a jubilant, faith-filled response from Hagar which is seen in Genesis 16:13-14. It reads, “So she named the Lord who spoke to her, ‘You are El-roi’; for she said, ‘Have I really seen God and remained alive after seeing him?’ Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi; it lies between Kadesh and Bered.”
El-Roi is traditionally translated as meaning, “The God Who Sees Me”. So throughout all the abuse she endured, along with the emotional bankruptcy that momentarily took hold of her, the God of heaven and earth saw her plight and responded with a promise. Because God saw her, she could now see her situation with hope and clarity. There was no need to run away. She was to go back- not just as a pregnant slave, but as a woman who was going to be the grandmother to a great nation; twelve tribes in fact, which according to Genesis 25:12-18, would settle in northwest Arabia.
Do you feel like God doesn’t see you? Do you feel like God doesn’t take into account the harsh situations that life has dealt you? When we feel like we no longer have the capacity to deal with our situation, we can trust that God sees us, and directs us to the majestic purpose that’s designed specifically for us.